so we got a sheet of blue spot stickers and a sheet of red spot stickers and a sheet of green spot stickers...
the red dots were placed on the household items that mum would keep
the blue for dad
the green for things that belonged to us kids, or that were undecided
my brother and i adjudicated the traumatic event
my brother got stoned to lighten the dark dark day
and it worked quite well in the end...
so now everything is divided
strange the things they argued over... drawings we had done as children, lamps, kitchen knives, the toaster